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Strong trigger warnings My Brother's death

07 June 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim

Major trigger warnings

an entry in progress

My older brother

age 17 as leaving my parent's home

WHAT ABOUT THE BOYS ???????

My older brother was 11 months older than me

I had a photo of the two of us together at my 2nd birthday

A friend I trusted the photo with, mailed it back and it was lost in the mail

My mom gave me photos of...

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My brother hid his cancer because of his history

07 June 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother

my eulogy started for my brother Nov 5 2006 9:52 am the date before an major anniversary

I have been told that my baby brother will die

he has had 3 types of cancer

the cancer spread to his lungs

and eventually to his brain

leaving him paralyzed

I was abused before his birth

I was about 15 mths...

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But not to brothers and sisters

07 June 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

We know each other

as we always were

We know each other's hearts

We share private family jokes.

We remember Family feuds and secrets,

family griefs and joys.

We live outside the touch of time.

Clara Ortega

she did not survive

19 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

to be continued

does it take a death to see what a life is worth ?

08 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY STORY, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend

unresolved grief major trigger warnings

my mom's mom age 3 I named her as a victim of violence in 2001

aunt on dad's side age 4 breast cancer triggerered 1991

my dad's mom age 7 she should be named as a victim of violence

my godmother age 11 - 12 cancer

my dad's dad age 13 ??? PERP

my older brother age 21 self...

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You're nothing like your sister

06 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

You're just like your sister !

and we were at the same grade school

some of the same teachers

to be continued

She is your witness,

06 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

who sees you at your worst

and best,

and loves you anyway.

Barbara Alpert

Where there's a sibling...

06 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

there's quibbling

Selma Raskin

A sister is

06 May 2007

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER

A sister is

a little bit

of childhood

that can

never be lost

:banana:

I did not see that you were in danger of losing your life

24 April 2007

Posted by danusia007 in MY RAPIST, My Family SISTER, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family I salute my brother, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, please forgive me

May 6 - Dec 6 National Day of Rembrance for Violence against Women

:candle:

My Sister died in 2001.

She was on life support.

I did not get to say good bye :down:

She was already off life support

by the time I came home

and found a police officer's card

under my door.

She would had been severely disabled

If they had kept her on...

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update since the great crash of feb 4 2007

22 March 2007

Posted by danusia007 in MY RAPIST, My Family NEPHEW, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family I salute my brother, CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY STORY

mom is in hospital

bro is barely speaking

he did get his birthday present

visits with nephew off and on between Dec 2004 to Oct 2006

a visit with him for his birthday april 2007

i went to his life plan meeting May 1 2007

apartment is full of water damage

and is sloowwlly drying out

i am still getting hang up calls

i am still hiding in...

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A Book for Sibling Abuse

26 November 2006

Posted by danusia007 in My Family I salute my brother, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE my books

ISBN 0-669-25006-6
LCCCN 90-21845

Perilous Rivalry When Siblings become Abusive

CRIMES

Vernon R Wiehe Ph d University of Kentucky College of Social Work Lexington 1991

a google search of the title will provide resources

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