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The irony is that he's had almost no interest in her for most of her life. He wasn't a good father to her when we were together, and he was even showing signs of becoming abusive. I made the right decision moving away with her. But he will never agree with that. I've even told him that he can visit her whenever he likes, but because we live so far apart that's not good enough for him he says. And the fact that father's day is right around the corner is only going to rile him up more.
And if I'm being honest with myself, to my surprise I'm finding it easier by the day being apart from him. All I really care about is putting my life back together and creating a good home for my daughter. I wish he'd just leave us alone. I thought at first the divorce was going to be amicable, but then he informed me he wouldn't pay child support, and now I can tell he is gearing himself up to fight me for custody. What kind of man tries to tear a little girl away from her mother?
The only thing I can do is get my life in order quickly, and show that I can provide the better life for her. I just wish things didn't have to be so negative between my ex and I. But whatever happens I will never let him take my daughter away from me.