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Hiding

Today I was trying to show my boyfriend how easy it is to find him on Google. I worry and wanted him to understand it is dangerous to list personal information. I told him - see when you type my name in, nothing comes up - it is VERY hard to find anything real about me online.

So he asks me - So what? What do I care if people can find me? ...

Sad

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SEXUAL EFFECTS INVENTORY

The Source of this is: "The Sexual Healing Journey"

by Wendy Maltz



1. ATTITUDES ABOUT SEX

Sexual abuse generates negative, false attitudes about sex.These become

hidden from your consciousness. You may have difficulty separating abusive

sex from healthy sex. Offenders contaminate victims, imprinting...

Forgive and Heal

When we want repayment for a wrong that has happened to us - the person to apologize, the person to receive some type of punishment for what they did wrong - we become stuck in the same place. We jail ourselves in a moment of time where we relive the pain that was caused to us over and over again - waiting for what we think should happen to...

Regrets?

The new school year is just around the corner. For the first time in 22 years, I'm not going shopping. I'm not buying new clothes, or notebooks, or wondering who my teacher will be (or looking my profs up on Ratemyprofessor ;D)

It's a strange feeling. I'm happy of course, because I also know it will be the first time I'm...

Getting Nervous Now

I emailed him on the 31st. I only know that is when because that was the last time he was online when I looked at his MySpace account. I almost wish I hadn't found that fucking things. It's good and it's bad, because I've been kinda worried he might have curled up in a ball and froze to death over the winter - so at least I know...

Party Girl/Homebody

Last night, I went out with the girls from work. It was really nice. I'm not a big party animal, but every so often it's nice to get away and just be around adults for awhile. I know the girls weren't happy with me, cuz I stuck to the back more.

Keep in mind, I planned this night out. But my problem is, for outgoing and...
 

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