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So the guy and I were suppose to meet up at the air show yesterday but he had to work the parking lot (he's in the Air Force also). So he set up a date for us to meet cause he wanted to make it up to me for not hangin' out. He offered to take me out for sushi tomorrow night.
Now I'm sort of nervous because 1)I gave him my address to pick me up at (I didn't do this with my R, but I'm nervous that this guy knows where I live if he turns out to be someone who wants to hurt me. I figured, though, since some of my family will be home, they can at least meet him and know what he looks like). 2) He's taking me to this sushi place across town kinda when I kinda just threw out some sushi places I knew of closer to my place.
I'm being ultra paranoid but I am just scared I guess. I do want to get to know him more cause he seems nice and an interesting person. I think I need to stop pushing my friends away and thinking every new guy I meet is out to get me ><!!
Does anyone who reads this think I'm making the right choice in telling him where I live (I do live in a gated community...) and letting him take me out so soon in his ride instead of like meeting him somewhere? Am I being way too paranoid??