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As if the photo of my abuser (stepdad) smiling with my sister and her daughter wasn't bad enough, today my mother posts on her Facebook about what a nice time my nephew is having playing with his grandfather.
It's not right, watching him having all these family ties he didn't earn. It's not right that he even gets to be around those kids. I don't think he'll hurt his nephew, but I don't trust mother to watch him every second. I don't trust him, just like I never trusted him when he said he'd never do it again. He didn't, but that doesn't mean he's changed inside. That doesn't mean I wasn't afraid of him. How can you all ignore what he is? What he did? Why can't you see him as a danger?
He got away with everything, while I'm the one being punished. Punished with all this pain while he gets to smile in the family album and have a relationship with his grandchildren. It's like everybody has selective memory and I'm the only one who remembers. And my mother, who thinks this is all so sweet and cute, you are the one I understand the least. You went through this, you should know, but you play all innocent like nobody ever did anything bad. Do you think that seeing no evil means it didn't happen?
I could throw things at the wall, I'm so angry right now.
It's not right, watching him having all these family ties he didn't earn. It's not right that he even gets to be around those kids. I don't think he'll hurt his nephew, but I don't trust mother to watch him every second. I don't trust him, just like I never trusted him when he said he'd never do it again. He didn't, but that doesn't mean he's changed inside. That doesn't mean I wasn't afraid of him. How can you all ignore what he is? What he did? Why can't you see him as a danger?
He got away with everything, while I'm the one being punished. Punished with all this pain while he gets to smile in the family album and have a relationship with his grandchildren. It's like everybody has selective memory and I'm the only one who remembers. And my mother, who thinks this is all so sweet and cute, you are the one I understand the least. You went through this, you should know, but you play all innocent like nobody ever did anything bad. Do you think that seeing no evil means it didn't happen?
I could throw things at the wall, I'm so angry right now.
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It seems so unfair that most abusers get to carry on with their lives as if they haven't destroyed the lives of the people they assaulted. I know my abuser has never faced any justice yet for what he has done. But karma does come back to everyone in the end though, so someday they will have to face the consequences of their evil deeds.
Irishleo,
25 September 2011 - 02:32 PM
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