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Im Scared

21 July 2010
Posted by amandaunderthepink 
I have been feeling sick in the mornings. I am scared I might be preganant. How can I carry my rapist's baby???

 
Back to here in my head →

3 Comments On This Entry

I know that taking a pregnancy test can be so scary, even for women who are facing a possible pregnancy from consensual sex. How awful to have to face that possibility resulting from an intrusion to your body. The sooner you know, though, the sooner you can either find relief or make a decision about what to do. It may help you feel better to know that all sorts of irregularities--late or very light periods, feeling ill at any point during the day, being extra tired or hungry, etc. can be triggered by stress. And, since you are a survivor of SA, you definitely qualify as having dealt with a stressful event. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do to help or offer support.
purplelikeme, 21 July 2010 - 10:48 AM
I completely agree with purplelikeme, have you a friend that can support you while you take a test, it is so possible that the stress has brought this on, especially if you have been pushing your emotions down. Emotion is held in the solar plexus (belly area), it's no wonder you feel sick. My thoughts are with you,
(((((amandaunderthepink))))) hugs if ok?
<Butterfly>
Butterfly1, 21 July 2010 - 03:20 PM
Sweetie, my thoughts are with you, okay? Many hugs! There may be more to your story that I do not know, but I am with the others above me here..bring a close friend if that's what would help you, sometimes it's much easier to have another to share a hard time with, who can be that rock for you. There are options for you if you do end up being pregnant, and that is okay! Do not be ashamed, you have done nothing wrong. Please let me know how everything is going.
CalamityJane, 21 July 2010 - 08:23 PM
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