And P.S. I Love you
My daughter drove my 4runner out to their place and waited for me to drive mom home in her care. I am patiently waiting for her to get everything together and get dressed to leave and she takes this opportunity to further her wierdness since being in the hospital.
She just wants me to know that she is not trying to tell me what to do and she is not judging me in any way she just wishes I would do what she knows will be good for me cuz she loves me so much.
I have to say that is a first. I always have to say the 'love' word first in my family to get a return response. For her to say this first kind of blows me away.
What does that mean to her anyway after this very afternoon she tells me for the first time that she physically abused my sister when she was a baby and todler. My sister does not know this. OMG what other secrets are there.
I am wondering if every person defines loving someone way different than I define it. I am totally freaked out.