My progress report
I learned something today. People who are abused as children grow up usually to be involved with being abused again. This happens because survivors do not know anything different, or preditors and abusers recognize survivors, or it is what a survivor believes they deserve as they were taught that, or combination or all of these reasons.
In my case all the above are true for me. After my childhood rapes, molestations, and physical and mental abuse I have been date raped, married a man who was controlling and verbally and emotionally abusive. I have read in pandy's this is true of alot of us. I am truly sad and sorry this has happened to anyone. I am grateful I have found this community, it is like I finally belong somewhere.
Blessings to all of us. :tear: