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homework for this week....

Posted by missophelia , 30 June 2013 · 169 views

What is beauty.

I don't think you can define beauty, at least, not physical beauty. Everyone's ideal of beauty is different. So, I don't think there's any way you can really define beauty. I don't even know what being “beautiful” in a physical way means, or what it is. Is it a thin body, being tall, slender, having a certain hair...


homework on change done....

Posted by missophelia , 27 June 2013 · 115 views

This is long...

I have spent the week trying to figure out how I have changed in the past four and a half years. I find it very hard to come to any conclusions about it.

Yes, I can now see that a lot of the beliefs I have are not based in fact. I can say, for example, that the things he said are not true because he is a criminal. He was not someone t...



Posted by missophelia , 23 June 2013 · 145 views

I want to go back to where I was, to who I was, to what I was, all those years ago….

But I don’t see me ever being there again….

Instead, I only see my depression and anxiety and anger….

Instead, I just want to SI...



Posted by missophelia , 20 June 2013 · 135 views

How I've changed in the past 4 1/2 years. Since I first started therapy with Dr H. Since I had my breakdown after I was triggered 5 years ago.

That is my homework for therapy.

How am I supposed to do that. Sounds so easy, so simple. All of the positive changes I've made. All of the ways I've changed. For the better.

Yeah, right.....



Posted by missophelia , 19 June 2013 · 109 views

I feel like I am just existing.

I haven't blogged here in a while.

It's become very hard for me at times to talk about how I feel. To write it down. To speak.

I feel trapped in my home life. I feel overwhelmed.

I feel my depression and my anxiety, like they are overrunning my life at times.

I feel like I am just existing.

I enjoy little...



Posted by missophelia , 11 June 2013 · 105 views

click on pic to see larger...

it's about how I feel right now...

I wish I could fly away and never have to come back...


more feelings...

Posted by missophelia , 10 June 2013 · 95 views


so angry....



Posted by missophelia , 09 June 2013 · 94 views




coming to terms...

Posted by missophelia , 08 June 2013 · 117 views

I have realized that I have not come to terms, in many ways, with being raped.

I am not sure how I feel about that.

Or what to do about it.


a letter...

Posted by missophelia , 05 June 2013 · 111 views

I wrote a letter today. And sent it.

I have been struggling for so long now. I think I am ready to try and change that.

And I know the change needs to come from within me.

Recently, my new psychiatrist and I worked to find a med for depression that I can take, one that has no triggers for my IBS. We found one. I took it for 4 days. The side effe...

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