Pandora's Aquarium: Possibly Single - Pandora's Aquarium

I wanted to want it. That makes complete sense to me even if it doesn't make sense to anyone else. I tried to feel in love with Jim. I threw myself into it. It felt great when we were together but when we were apart, I couldn't care less about him. That was my bad. He, on the other hand, is completely nuts. He wants to marry me one day and the next slow down and just date. In other words, not spend the nights on the weekends anymore. The day after he tells me that he talks about finding a job near me and moving in!!!! He is acting bipolar but he really isn't. I think he is just very overwhelmed by the relationship. He hadn't been in one for a while and was having a hard time adjusting to the disruption in his life of making time to see me. Now for me, making time to socialize is normal. I think it is hard for him because he lives in his own little world and I set off a nuclear bomb of feelings he has no idea what to do with. I have enough problems of my own. I don't need his issues. We talked about several things that happened in just the last two weeks and I told him to figure out what he wanted and how he was going to achieve that and let me know. I don't see us ever staying together. He would have to show up as the fictitious white knight and tell me an evil genius took over his brain to explain why he acted the way he did.

I want to find a guy who is self-sufficient, affectionate, intelligent, and family oriented. I'm not really asking for the world. I think they really are out there.