Welcome to Pandora's Aquarium, a rape, sexual assault, and sexual abuse survivor message board and chat room.
If you've been a victim of any type of sexual violence, you belong here. What you see below represents just a fraction of the resources and survivor support available. Register now to join our community and take full advantage of what this online support group has to offer you as you heal and recover, or sign in to remove this message.
You are not alone, we can support you as you heal, and you've made an important step toward recovery by reaching out. If you are unable to register or have any questions, please contact the staff or view our home page.
If you don't know what happened to me, go to "my story" & find my post.
Since I broke up with my ex (the one who did it to me), I've been talking to him off & on, so I could get some of my stuff back. Basically, we'd be getting along one minute, & the next we'd be fighting.
Anyway, I was talking to him last week, I think, & he was talking about his new girlfriend. I don't remember what got us started on this, but he told me that he was proving to her that it wasn't all about sex, so they weren't having sex very often.
I was furious! Why is it that when I didn't want to have sex with him, he either raped me or gave me the whole "stop being selfish" lecture, & acted like he was entitled to sex whenever he wanted it, but he's actually gonna go without sex with her to prove that's not what their relationship is about!?
:tear:/> It's so not fair! I mean, I don't want him to rape her (as much as I don't like her... Long story). But come on! Why was he never that nice to me??