You cannot cure Crazy! (could T read with care)
I am a little frustrated with his family as they keep contacting me (even 22 years later). At some point they should really learn about boundaries. At any rate my general feeling is this: Why do people think survivors want to know how their R affected them. I mean everyone from my family members to general acquaintances to even his family have wanted to inform me how what happened to me affected them. This does not help with recovery at all and serves no purpose for the survivor other than future torment.