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Posted by sailor , in Bad Marriage 01 December 2013 · 122 views

Three weeks ago, I moved out.
My husband doesn't believe he ever hurt me. Even after I told him what happened, how it left me feeling scared and intimidated, he didn't believe it. He said the 7 years before that should make up for a few moments when he lost his temper... besides, I deserved it. If I feel scared it's just because I'm too fragile....



Posted by sailor , in Bad Marriage 01 November 2013 · 186 views

I've been with my husband for 8 years, and each one has been a struggle. An internal one, that I kept very well to myself.
I didn't like who I was when I met him. I preferred his ideal of "the right woman." I shelved my baggage. I pretended to be more mature than my 19 years of neglect and abuse. I put my needs aside and focused on making him happy.
I wou...

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