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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW
this year I am back to having mixed emotions about mom


her health my heath



her safety my safety


my nephew


my brother


my family

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visit with mom

07 May 2009
Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor
to be continued

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother
I saw my brother during my visit to my hometown

It was rather short


he, myself and my nephew talked briefly about computors

I WAS THRILLED THAT HE IS GETTING TO SPEND TIME WITH OUR NEPHEW


he gave mom a mother's day card



I need to come up with a creative hickory flavoured puree


as he was eying my chips


any suggestions will be...
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Mom phoned

27 October 2008
Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER
she is still extremely distressed by my cousins' behaviour.


she is waiting to tell my brother



and I am still not sure when she will tell my nephew


she has cancelled her visits with both of them again



i must say my cousins work fast

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, REFLECTIONS
I am short on time


I will blog more later



Mom phoned me this morning


She has found yet another way to prevent my brother and nephew from seeing each other


Every time I remove one of her roadblocks


she erects

another





sigh

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Posted by danusia007   in career MY CAREER, career and COLLEGE, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor
My last year of work
the husband of my parent committee chair
was having an affair with another parent
Almost everyone knew except her
cuz they were having sex in their car
in the school parking lot
I was told by my supervisors to say nothing
I found it unsettling and triggering
Over the years since leaving work
I kept having these flashes about...
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Mom(p) phoned

21 October 2006
Posted by danusia007   in REFLECTIONS, My Family NEPHEW, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor
I will be possibly having lunch with my mom next week for the first time in years.
My nephew and I had planned a lunch get together and mom may join
(This is not the dinner I described elsewhere in my blog)

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, REFLECTIONS
I call mail from MOM...MOM BOMBS

possible triggers



So I was handed an envelop today
It is a birthday card from mOm

OK open slowly and carefully
she already got her card from me
ok it is not a card for a little kid

but I am already blanking on the card
hmm my favourite colours
purples and blue and (some green)
I am blanking out the...
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This is basically my space to spill out everything I'm thinking and feeling.

Please note that some of the content here may be triggering.

What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.

There will be talk of CSA, SA, R, SI and ED here.

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