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Posted by danusia007   in MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, My Family SISTER, career and UNIVERSITY
so today, for the second time

i visited the site of my assault

last December 6 th

the national day of remembering


in Canada

both times I had the same support person with me


today felt differently from the other visit


today I was trying to make sense

out of a senseless act


an act that my assailant has shown no remorse

an act that...
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Posted by danusia007   in MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, My Family SISTER, career and UNIVERSITY
i went to the spot where i was assaulted last year


it had changed

i had changed

it seemed smaller than it was in the flashblacks

the flashbacks distorted certain moments

the visit put the distortions in a new perspective

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My long term boyfriend

07 July 2009
Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, career MY CAREER, career and UNIVERSITY, career and COLLEGE, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER
back injury

on campus movies

group dating pizza and movies

his crush on my roommate

concerts

friends with baby brother

birthday gift

christmas formal dinner

big brother's suicide

summer of the letters

playing marbles or something

parents meet and approve

his career

gifts


movies

pizza

might move

uncle's death

his...
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Posted by danusia007   in career and COLLEGE, career and UNIVERSITY
One of the highest risk situations for sexual assault
(after the family) occurrs
when a woman is studying at college or university.

Even today I question how well trained
the counsellors(sp) are to assist women
when they are assaulted on the academic campus.


to be continued

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Posted by danusia007   in career and UNIVERSITY
I was a personal attendent for a friend. The woman across the hall from her was part of our social circle.
I got cards and letters from this woman. I was invited by her to come to her room to watch TV. There was either a desk chair or her bed to sit on. The woman was on the bed. I sat on the end of the bed watching TV......the woman's...
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This is basically my space to spill out everything I'm thinking and feeling.

Please note that some of the content here may be triggering.

What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.

There will be talk of CSA, SA, R, SI and ED here.

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