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Posted by danusia007   in cancer and ptsd, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES support, My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, My HEALING CIRCLE Virtual Parties, MY STORY, REFLECTIONS, The Power of Your Dreams
there has been so much upheaval since my brothers death


he is missed

so is sis

i would like less upheaval right now

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happy thanksgiving

07 October 2011
Posted by danusia007   in CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, REFLECTIONS, support
i am thankful that


nephew survived the months of surgery

i do not have a broken wrist

although there is a city sidewalk that need to be fix



and that mom received medical treatment

for her broken shoulder from her fall

while visiting a friend





happy thanksgivings one and all


tgc

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death of a perp

24 June 2011
Posted by danusia007   in CLINICAL SERVICES support, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, support
mom told me that another one of my perps died

his abuse was between mainly age 7 to 15


some at age 4


during family events


he had one daughter

and a huge number of sons

to be continued...

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, MY HEALING CIRCLE
:congrats:


mom only commented on mine this year


and that was only when the cousins were gossiping about it


I found mine really empowering


although now I wish Mom would stop staring at it


it was the least painful part


and now that mom has acknowledged it existance


and survived

:beatsme:


good luck !

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY STORY, PROFILE, REFLECTIONS, support
today i am remembering all of the stories that i have read


today i am remembering all of the survivors that i have met


today i am thinking of my family


today i am thinkinking of my friends

today i remember

Source: [url="http://pandys.org/forums/index.php?showtopic=63517&view=findpost&p=1401697"]How a child has DID by...
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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE My Music, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY STORY, PROFILE, REFLECTIONS, support
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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family SISTER, MY HEALING CIRCLE
mom and i am talking more recently

i even talk about dad with her


we are both making an effort

and there is little input from

my counsellors

Source: Mom --- both Victim and Perp--- the dilemna

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Posted by danusia007   in ACTIVIST, cancer and ptsd, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., CLINICAL SERVICES housing, CLINICAL SERVICES support, My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, MY HEALING CIRCLE My Music, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, MY STORY
******* !!!!!!

I hope to be back soon....seems I got sold a laptop in may 2006 that did not have windows properly installed plus 1,000 other tech probs ! After waiting 44 ? loong days, it appears that in spite of "repairs" I have the exact same prob and 1.001 tech probs !!!!!!

*******...
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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, support
laptop miseries continue. I will be visiting nephew April 15.Thanks to ******* for her support

Source: Missing - Pandy's Members

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT
hey all

internet is still erratic
saw rapist
and will be visiting my hometown

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, support
I am back from my visit to my hometown


and hiding from my stalker


How are the other Pandy's members ?

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, support
so i visited the family

all 4 of us together for mother's day

i am still hiding from my rapist and stalker


i wish everyone well

Source: Missing - Pandy's Members

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor
my relatives did not understand the circle of justice either

sigh !!!!!

sorry technical problems this end oops

Source: Do you ever expect to "run into" R/SA-ist

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim
i will be running into her off and on for the next 4 days


um mom have you ever heard of the circle of justice ?


yeah its like bro's comic book

sigh

Source: Do you ever expect to "run into" R/SA-ist

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, MY HEALING CIRCLE, MY HEALING CIRCLE sometimes a friend, support
I am talking a lot with my mom


and some friends


one helped to write the eulogy



my nephew has a lot of unanswered questions



I thank everyone for their replies and pm(s)

Source: My brother please share my grief

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Posted by danusia007   in CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., CLINICAL SERVICES support, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT, REFLECTIONS, support
I am finding 2 years after my initial post that I face more discrimination

when I disclose abuse by females than when I disclose abuse by males

Source: sexual abuse by female perpetrators

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Posted by danusia007   in career and COLLEGE, career and UNIVERSITY, CLINICAL SERVICES health serv..., CLINICAL SERVICES support, My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW, My Family OLDER BROTHER Perp and Victim, My Family SISTER, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT
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Ok I am back. Who knows for how long. I am get ting virtual memory errors now on laptop


I have 5 female perps

plus the stalkers

Mom (p) was the initial perp.


Initially memories of her were blurred in...
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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, MY RAPIST, MY STALKER AND ASSAILANT
AND THE HANG UP CALLS are starting again and no they are not from Mom(P)

I asked Mom(P) and she says she would not do that...I think they are other (P) and her friends

Source: sexual abuse by female perpetrators

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Posted by danusia007   in My Family I salute my brother, My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor, My Family NEPHEW
:trigger:






I have plans to see my nephew for lunch on Saturday. My mom (P) may join us. I thought that his group home worker would be there as well. Last night, his worker told me that they will be short staffed and I would be alone with my nephew and mom(P)............


:trigger:


........................on my brother's birthday last...
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Posted by danusia007   in My Family MOM the delimna perp and survivor
I'm new to the site first came out to this topic in 1992 still receive mixed responses I did receive compensation for initial offender

Source: sexual abuse by female perpetrators

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What I write here is just me being honest with myself. Mostly just venting about things, realisations, and my path through healing.

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