GoldLion Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 * A closet or bathroom door left open *Rape scenes in moves or even sex scenes or talk of sex [in movies or person] *Sitting too close to people *Any attention what so ever [even as small as people staring on the bus or sitting next to me even] *Clubs *The word 'hurt' directed at me in any way *outward flirting *Any touching [especially of my legs or my wrist/hand area] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SurvivingTheStorm Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 Someone grabbing my wrist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momof4 Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Mine are being touched from behind, my ex's voice, just sensing that a man is standing right behind me, and any touch (even from my kids) that I have not been able to prepare myself for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SurvivingTheStorm Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 Someone grabbing my wrist. Big trigger for me as well old men...every time I see one I automatically think "pervert!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SurvivingTheStorm Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 Someone grabbing my wrist. Big trigger for me as well old men...every time I see one I automatically think "pervert!" back to you to. wow we have similar triggers. I don't know why the mind works like that but I am the same. Yeah we do seem to be triggered by similar things...though I am not that surprised...I relate a lot to your story and your posts in general...PM if you ever want to. :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdia84 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 I don't know if I've posted here before, but I realized I have a new trigger: whistling. For some reason, both yesterday and today, there has been someone outside my window who whistles as they walk by, and it is HUGELY triggering. I have no idea why that might be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beyond Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 A movie channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little_miss_cliche Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 (edited) * Men of Mediterranean appearance - The guy that perpertrated it all was of spanish descent. * Suggestions of group sex - I was blackmailed into a gang bang of sorts with three guys. I used to enjoy group sex and now the mere suggestion makes my skin crawl and reminds me of that night. * Rape scenes in movies Edited October 26, 2007 by little_miss_cliche Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SurvivingTheStorm Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 * Suggestions of group sex That's a big trigger for me too. Ugh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InfiniteAtheist Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 *Boney hands *Class rings (especially with blue stones in them) *The name "Bryan" (but not Brian) *Rape scenes in movies/tv/books *Rape jokes *The use of the word rape in the context "I so raped you" or "I totally got raped" referring to VIDEO GAMES *Mentally challenged people *House sounds at night *Being touched in anyway by men other than my father and boyfriend *Being alone with men I don't know well, especially authority figures *Not being able to see properly (when I get migraines I can't see and it ads panic to the pain...as if the headache wasn't enough. if you take a low-dose aspirin every morning it can help prevent migraines though. Just thought I'd share that. Sorry) *His voice, picture, or presence *Pop-up trailers, especially when they have a yellow/brown color scheme *The game Chutes and Ladders *Having my ass grabbed a certain way (my boyfriend learned not to do that real quick...) *Gyno. appointments *A guy my age that might have gotten hurt too....*guilt* I didn't realize there were so many.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boogies_mommy Posted October 31, 2007 Share Posted October 31, 2007 some of mine are: the smell of peppermint scented lotion and some facewash a certain type of cologne r*pe scenes in movies r*pe and abuse jokes the light sometimes at certain times of day any heavy kissing having my butt grabbed unexpectedly by my husband horror movies having someone breathe on my neck or talk close to my ear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellesurvived Posted November 10, 2007 Share Posted November 10, 2007 Abused in so many places for so long I've developed a ton of triggors-- and ultimately had to learn a ton of positive coping skills... Some strange ones: 1. Cinnamin Gum 2. Toothpaste 3. Floor lamps 4. Puppets 5. Churchs (You can imagine that this one was tough to deal with...) 6. The smell of alcohol 7. Hand-cuffs (I suppose this will keep me from ever doing anything illegal! ) 8. Type-writers 9. People with extremely small thumbs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlegirllost Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 when people grab me to get my attention yelling at me or just around me the smell of alcohol rape scenes in movies or tv physical abuse of children in movies or tv scary movies- i can never watch nightmare on elm street the dark of night 3 am in the morning it always happened at that time too many... i cant write anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lools Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 The words: r*pe, ab*se, se*ual, vi*lating, ass*ult, t*uching, f*ndling, har*ssing, m*lesting, str*ngling, f*rcing Having my period (not necessarily a bad thing but a reminder) Being pinned down with arms above my head Not being able to move my arms or legs Being strangled or seeing someone strangled (in films maybe) Males standing very close behind me Anyone who looks at me funny (staring at me) Tickling or hitting 'fights' Night time Dark rooms Talk about sex / oral sex Hearing a male make sexual noises Perverted male jokes Films with rape/violent scenes Any loud sounds or creaky noises (espec. at night) Young innocent girls (I want to protect them / wish I could go back to their age) Talk about Lebanon or Beirut Being in a quiet room (I need to listen to music or have someone talking) Open doors Closed doors Anyone saying anything about men being superior to women (e.g.: men are better drivers than women, women are only good for cooking, cleaning and sex etc.) The word “shaytan” (the devil in Arabic) Not being able to see Anyone who looks like him Holidays (Christmas time, half terms and summer espec.) Thinking I’ve let someone down / upset someone Not being perfect Being in “no way out” situations People who say sorry and dont mean it Sorry its so long, the list is endless! And great to see lots of you sharing the same triggers as me xxxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellesurvived Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 An addition! People calling me "Ellie" instead of "Elle" or people using my full name "Elspeth" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agreog Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 *open closet doors *scenes in movies or passages in books involving decpitation *being touched in general *french kissing *the young girls thing is starting to trigger me as of late too, though it does not have to be young as in the innocence, but teenage girls really can get me. Especially ones who obviously have an **attitude** they remind me of me when I was 15. It makes me wonder why they have the attitiude and I wanna go up to them and tell them it's all right. I want to tell them NOT to hold it in for so long. Than it could poison them if they do... oh gotta go but I have more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fyonah Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 - people named nick (i hate this cuz it's totally unfair to them, but i can't help it, y'know?) - the smell of axe phoenix - flannel sheets - bad scenes in movies (you know what i'm talking about) - my breasts being touched - my daughter - conversations about abortion/adoption - pregnancy tests - really skinny guys - arm-wrestling (but it's ok as long as nobody challenges me) - when a guy friend is sad (once again, i hate this cuz it's not fair) - sometimes being hugged sets me off - if i'm having a bad day, anything sexual Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovesrecovery Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 - I'm sad to say, sometimes I get triggered by young girls, probably because I envy their innocence Me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
six Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 Anytime a middle eastern male talks to me, approaches me, looks at me, or even messages me online it just makes me relive things.. I can't listen to rap music without reliving it, since they listened to it.. I can't bare talking about high school, if anyone asks me about high school, I relive it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
six Posted November 21, 2007 Share Posted November 21, 2007 * Suggestions of group sex That's a big trigger for me too. Ugh. me too.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daisygirl Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 this was a great idea! I have pretty standard triggers but i think the worst ones are: *black interiors in cars* (any model/make) *cigarettes* *having somebody hold my hands above my head or behind my back* *guys giving me compliments* *pet names like swtie and hunni (only by ppl who i am not comfortable with)* im sure there are others that im just not remembering right now thanks for listenin *daisygirl* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amanda Posted November 24, 2007 Share Posted November 24, 2007 I have a lot similar to others but I will post some of my more unusual ones.... young sisters baby talk cold wet fabric star trek phlegm or any kind of oral secretion, spit etc brushing my teeth people with rotten front teeth french kissing any man that i know is mentally ill or at least appears to be so being in groups of mentally ill people (men or women) or some kind of support group the words diary or journal being locked out or locked in somewhere being told my intentions (like you meant to do that) having breasts, body hair esp when mentioned by a man laying down or sleeping in front of other people city limit signs certain colors, like seafoam green/blue talk of the supernatural, ghosts, magic, satan (if meant seriously - harry potter and casper are fine) Pine-Sol The older elvis look, sideburns and dark hair being asked to be seductive directional lights like spotlights peticoats/slips tripods jewelry except stud earrings people who talk in circles or convoluted cotton plants water at times the suggestion that I have sex laying on my stomach Chuck Berry's My-Ding-A-Ling song Half of those I have no idea why they set me off. Some I can guess but I dont remember. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Just_Another_Dreamer Posted December 9, 2007 Share Posted December 9, 2007 The scent/feeling of having vaginal discharge. anyone touching any part of my legs. anyone making sudden movements in my direction. I think those were all fairly normal. Oh wait. The scent of chlorine, thinking of manmouth university,which includes seeing the film annie, seeing a copy of Moment (a jewish magazine) Teenage emo hispanics. Anyone naked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PurposeByDesign Posted December 10, 2007 Share Posted December 10, 2007 (edited) I'm sad to say, sometimes I get triggered by young girls, probably because I envy their innocence Me too.....and i think cuz i worry abt them too.. Also.. -- really dark black men esp. with square shaped heads -- Any conversation on swimming in general -- Swimming pools -- Ikoyi Club (where I took lessons) -- One particular girl (I fear it happened to her too cuz think he gave her lessons too) -- Light blue and/or black swimming shorts (men's) -- For a while but not so much now...guys (incl. my male friends) holding me against them with their hands around my waist. -- Fingers especially mens -- Men with long fingernails...or not cut short of any length. -- Books, Films, anythng on sexual assault of any kind especially child abuse. -- my 'die' days -- Memories. -- Conversations with friends telling me about their what they get up to in their relationships. -- I just found this out with my ex (which makes sense as he's my first proper boyfriend)... bare hand on my stomach region...i dont know rili know why...have i suppressed some memories?? i can't take nemore id rather die than know for sure Edited December 10, 2007 by UnsnatchableTreasure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layelah Posted December 30, 2007 Share Posted December 30, 2007 Wow, some of these have made me realize more of my own. Like earlier when someone said little girls. Living in NYC I pass like 4 trillion people a day (give or take a couple trillion) and there have been times when I've seen little girls and suddenly gotten some weird feeling (not too good at identifying my own feelings some times) but now I think it's the innocence I envy or admire... also hands on my stomach area hands (only certain types) when people say things like "it's okay, we're all girls" as an excuse for being open about sexual things elastic straps or bands of clothes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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